June 24, 2019

One of the most common things I hear about grief is how lonely it feels. Just today, again, I received an email signed this way: "Alone. I'm all alone in my grief."

"Alone. I'm all alone in my grief."

There is, indeed, a quality to grief that feels lonely, at least some...

June 24, 2019

I don't use the word "triggered" in my work with traumatic grief for a number of reasons. 

I do often use the word "cued" because when we encounter others, words, settings, memories, or some other sensory experience that cause deeply disturbing feelings or strong reacti...

June 24, 2019

In honor of grieving dads, we offer these thoughts from bereaved dad of Corey and our client, David Van Hook. Thank you for sharing this David and Corey.

What is Selah Carefarm to me, as a father, as a grieving father?

My answer? Whatever I need it to be.

Who Am I?
No, I...

June 2, 2019

Drugs and alcohol lie. They promise a good time but pilfer simple joys.  

They promise solace for past anguishes but bankrupt the future. 

They promise comfort for unanswerable questions but they destroy any chance at real meaning. 

They promise happiness but leave any ch...

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