I am a reasonably joyful, contemplative person with plenty of quirks who cries every day at both the beauty and the pain in the world. I'm a tenured research professor at Arizona State University, where I run the graduate Certificate in Trauma and Bereavement, and founder of the MISS Foundation.


Since 1996, I have worked with and counseled those affected by traumatic death, most often the deaths of a children. I started the first therapeutic carefarm in the world for traumatic grief based on a framework for incorporating 40 domestic and farm animals rescued from abuse, torture, neglect, and homelessness. It's called Selah Carefarm

My research has been published in peer reviewed journals such as The Lancet, British Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Social Work Education, Journal of Mental Health Counseling, Seminars in Fetal and Neonatal Medicine, and the International Journal of Nursing.


My best selling book, Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief, won the Indies Book of the Year Award. My next book of meditations, Grieving is Loving, will be released in December of 2020.

On a personal note, ahimsa is at the core of my spiritual practice, and I am a fierce ethical vegan (meat/fish free since the age of 7) and a registered yoga teacher. The best therapist I've ever known is my horse, Chemakoh. We met rather dramatically here


I have endured many anachronistic deaths during the course of my early life. I lost both my parents. My best friend and teacher died in 2004 and I have lost partners and many friends.

But July of 1994 changed the course of my life: the day my baby daughter died. Since then, I have committed my life to the service of others suffering traumatic deaths, as it was in the darkness when I truly found my self.

I am a mother to five children, now mostly grown, "four who walk and one who soars".

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© 2020 Joanne Cacciatore, Ph.D.