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Soliciting Closure.
Last night, a grieving person shared that he’s being “pushed toward closure” by others. Another young man whose brother died more than...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20202 min read


Feeling: Superpower!
We live in a world that sends us wrong minded messages: That we are entitled to "be happy" all the time and that we should rarely, if...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20202 min read


Subatomic Connections to Our Dead
My heart shattered, broken into millions of pieces, The day you died. And because there was nothing else to do, I let those shattered...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20202 min read


When Their Animals Die
"Why, why, why does this hurt so much?!" She begged me to help her understand why the death of her daughter's dog, two years later, was...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20201 min read


Vegan Pizza and Grief
This is a story about keeping our hearts open, even when they are broken, and the willingness to connect with others. Yesterday, I went...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20202 min read


Pedagogical Humanity
This article comes at a very good time indeed. Why? Because in the last 48 hours, I've received four emails from providers ill-prepared...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20202 min read


Of Course. Grief is Complicated.
The sun is simple. A sword is simple. A storm is simple. Behind everything simple is a huge tail of complicated. -Terry Pratchett Names have been changed and stories used with permission. Sudden, traumatic, and ambiguous losses are almost always complicated. Beth had been “euphorically married” to Joel for 12 years. For the first six years of their marriage, they “struggled” with infertility. During year seven of their marriage, just as they’d both “given up hope for a

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20208 min read


Grief is a Bone Marrow Wound
In May of 2016, I took a hard fall and broke my arm in two places. I tore my shirt (landed in a bush tree), ripping easily through the...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20202 min read


The necessity of extraordinarily connecting experiences
I cry easily often and with great ease. I always say that my superpower is that I feel. This past week, I was in Aspen and Glenwood...

Dr Jo
Jul 18, 20205 min read
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